I told my family, yeah they were shocked that I was pregnant, but I'm glad they didn't make an big deal about it. So they knew immediately that my ex was the father.
Next day, we had this game event at the school, my friends were there with me to make sure that I would remain calm that whole night, not even close. My ex showed up and that's when things got really bad. He was telling our friends that my baby wasn't his and I just went on a full breakdown/venting rage. I didn't know what to do, I wanted to go home and just forget this whole event never happened. Nope my friend Travis (is the one that has the biggest crush on me wanted me to stay) so I stayed just for him. Glad that he was around during all of this mess. I don't what know what I would without him.
My son Thomas is turning 5 this year in August 5th, he'll be starting school soon :) and his father (my ex) isn't even around. I'm not even worried about it. I'm doing a pretty damn good job as a single parent. Work & school is hard to balance, but I am doing this for me & my son. I deserve some credit for handling this for almost 5 years, so in the end I'm glad I didn't have to rely on my ex for anything. He has his life and I have mine. That's all.
I know there is someone out there who will love and appreciate me & my son. Until that guy appears, i will be focused on getting my life together.